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Last week, Miss New Jersey told us how someone was trying to blackmail her, threatening to make public embarrassing photographs that she posted on her Facebook page. And you might be wondering what are your kids posting and how can you protect them from prying and potentially dangerous eyes online.

You know, they are, they are not that bad, but they were meant to be private, and that’s made me feel very vulnerable that the entire country has seen them now.

Amy Polenbo may be a beauty queen, but she is no different from the average computer user who uses social networking websites to post personal photos. MySpace and Facebook collectively got more than 90 million users posting personal information and photos. An estimated 4.7 million are under the age of 18 on MySpace and 4.3 million on Facebook. While most intend for the photos they post to be viewed by close friends and family. The story of Miss New Jersey and that of American Idol contestant Nanty Illobaba offer a sobering reminder. Even pictures meant to be kept private have a way of becoming public. In this new age of information, employers and school admission's councils are now using these sites to access information about job candidates and potential students. MySpace does offer privacy control for profiles in facebooks, limits access to people with the same network or groups. But there are still ways for people not connected to you to access personal information. And while devastating for her, the case of Miss New Jersey provides a valuable lesson for all Internet users.

Nothing you post in Internet is private, even if it’s in a privately accessed website.

Ruth Peter is a chance psychologist, hey, Ruth, good morning. Nice to have you back. (Good morning, Matt) I, I, I look at it as the rules for photos online are a little bit like the rules for wearing a microphone around here. If you don’t want someone to hear it, you don’t say while you are wearing a microphone. If you don’t want someone to see the pictures, don’t put them online.

There is absolutely no control once it goes online. I don’t care if it says it’s personal, it’s private, whatever. Once it’s on there, somebody can actually copy it, paste it to their own websites or add it on their own computers. And even if you sanitize that site afterward, those people still have it.

And if you are parent, and you have got teenagers, daughter, sons, and, and ,and this kinda, this Facebook craze, this MySpace craze is part of their daily socialization, how do you convince them that what can seem fun in one moment can become a nightmare in another moment.

Well, first, I think while Miss New Jersey did is, it probably did more for all of these than anybody of us could do. And so I think what you do (is) you talk to your child, you explain it to, and then you have to supervise them. That’s the key word; you have to supervise your kids online.

I'll talk about supervising them in just a second but I think if your parent has to say to what child look, this is for your friends and your family. These are the people who see these photos. (Right!) But it only takes one angry friend or one jealous friend to make these things public.

Exactly, and that’s why we say you do not have control, and so if you want to send photos to your friends or families, send them an email with that on. It doesn’t have to go into this public’s field.

So parents have to familiarize themselves with Facebook and MySpace and all these things, while at least they can help their children.

And it’s easy, most parents think that the technology is bafflement beyond them, but it’s really very simple to start your own account, to go in, and be able to look and see what/ your children are doing.

Alright, so talk to me about different age groups and how much monitoring parents should be doing with their kids and these types of pagers.

I think you start that we will talk about who your kid is. There are some kids that are really good and really easy and all you have to do is just check them once in a while. But other kids who are squally and impulsive and you don’t trust their judgement. Well that I would sit down and say, um, I'm paying for the Internet, what your site is on there is my site, it will embarrass me. I am gonna be checking it frequently and randomly.

Yeah, and parents should absolutely have the passwords, they should be ought to gain no matter what.

Or there is no site, I mean it is very clear. I am paying for it, the password is mine too.

Dose the parent make the child responsible for everything on the site? In other words, you know, a friend can put something on my child’s Facebook account or what MySpace page. So then is my child responsible for that?

Absolutely, and that’s the rule I use for my kid clients that I don’t care what kind of language your friends are using, if it’s on there and it’s bad language, you are responsible. You either have to block them or you lose the site. And your language has to be very appropriate because people will judge you by who you associate with.

And as these kids get older, they get to be of college age or at least college application age, and of job age, these can counts, these pages can come back to hunt them.

They are public, because, um, you know, the college admission councils are now using them for grade school, and also employers, their HR departments are always going to look. So what I tell people to do is you have that account, use your first name as your first name, your middle name as your last name, very difficult for other people to find out.

But again, the most important thing, it’s not private. If you put on the Internet in any way, shape or form, it’s not private.

It's not private. And you wouldn't let your kids to go down the dark alley without supervision. Don’t let them to go into the dark alley of the Internet without supervision.

Ruth Peters, well said. Thanks very much.

Thank you, Matt!
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Last week, Mrs New Jersy told us that someone has tried to blackmail her, threatening her by publishing some embarrassing photographs that she posted on Facebook page and you might be wondering what your kids are posting and how to protect them from pry and potential dangerous sites on line.
You know they are not that bad but warn me to be private and it makes me very vulnerable that entire country has seen them now.
Is may be beauty queen, but she is no difference from average computer user. She use social networking website to post personal photos. Myspace and Facebook collectively got more than 19 million users posting personal information and photos. As estimated, 4.7 million under their age 18 is on Myspace and 4.3 million on Facebook.
Where most intends photos they post to be you by close friends and family. The story of miss new jersey and American idol contester offer sobering reminder. Even picture mean to be catch private have a way becoming public. In these new age information, employer and school admission counsel are now using these sites to access the information about job candidates and potential students. Myspace does offer privacy control for profile and Facebook limits access to people with same network or groups, but there is still ways for people not connected to you to access personal information and while sending for her, the kids of mrs new jersey provide valuable lesson for all internet users.
Nothing in post on internet private, even it is in the privately access websites.
Is child psychologist. Hi, good morning, that is good have you be back.
I look it as the rules for photos on-line are a little bit like the rules that wearing microphone around here. You don’t want someone hear, you don’t say while wearing microphone. If you don’t want someone see the picture, don’t put them on line.
There is absolutely no control once goes on line. I don’t care whether it is personal or private whatever, once these on there, somebody can actually copy and paste these to their own websites or onto their own computer, and even if you feel sanitize that site afterwards, those people so have them.
If you are parent, if you got teenagers, daughters and sons, and this kind of Facebook crisis Myspace crisis, part of daily socialization, how do you convince them what can seem fun at one moment can become the nightmare at another moment.
Well, first I think while mrs new jersey did this, he probably did more for all of these anybody ask do and So I think you should do is talking to your child, you explain to, then you have to supervise, that is keyword. You have to supervise your kids on line.
You talk to supervise them on just second book. I think it is parent has to say while the child look, this is for your friends and family, this is people to post CD photos but only takes one angry friend or one jealousy friend to make these things public.
Exactly, that is what we will say, you do not control, and so If you want send photos to your friends or families, send them email with that on. It doesn’t have to go in to public fair.
So Parents have to familiarize themselves with facebook and myspace, all these things with at lest they can help their children.
It is easy, most parents their knowledge are above and beyond it. It is really simple to start an only account to go in and be able to look and see what your children are doing.
Talk to me about Different age group and how much mandatory parent should be doing with their kids on these types of pages.
I think it start in that way, talk about who your kid is. There are Some kids are really good, really easy and all you have to just check them once a while, but other kids are spoiled and passive and you don’t trust the judgment. When I once done and say for the internet Where you sites on there, it is my sites, it will embarrass me, I am going to check it frequently and randomly.



Yes, parents absolutely have password, they should be old to get know no matter worse.
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I mean it is very clear on paying for the password is
Just parents make child responsible for everything on the sites, in another words no a friend can put something on my child facebook account or myspace page, so is my child responsible for that?
Absolutely, that is rule i use my kids cliences I don’t care what kind of language your friends are using, if it is on there and it is a bad language, you will be responsible, you will block the file or loose the site. Your language has to be properly with that people judge you by who you associate with.
And it is easy kids Get older they get to be off colleage, release
Of job age, can come back and hunt them
They are public. You know, college admission counsel are not using them for grant school.
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Last week, Miss New Jersey told us how someone was trying to blackmail her, threatening to make public embarrassing photographs that she posted on her Facebook page. And you might be wondering what are your kids posting and how can you protect them from prying and potentially dangerous eyes online.

You know, they are, they are not that bad, but they were meant to be private, and that’s making me feel very vulnerable that the entire country has to see them now.

Amy Polenbo may be a beauty queen, but she is no different from the average computer user who uses social networking websites to post personal photos. MySpace and Facebook collectively garner more than 90 million users posting personal information and photos. An estimated 4.7 million are under the age of 18 on MySpace and 4.3 million on Facebook. While most intend/ for the photos they post to be viewed by close friends and family. The stories of Miss New Jersey and that of American Idol contestant Antonella Barbara offer a sobering reminder. Even pictures meant to be kept private have a way of becoming public. In this new age of information, employers and school admissions councils are now using these sites to access information about job candidates and potential students. MySpace does offer privacy control for profiles in facebooks, limits access to people with the same network or groups. But there are still ways for people not connected to you to access personal information. And while devastating for her, the case of Miss New Jersey provides a valuable lesson for all Internet users.

Nothing you post on the Internet is private, even if it’s in a privately accessed website.

Ruth Peters is a child psychologist, hey, Ruth, good morning. Nice to have you back. (Good morning, Matt) I, I, I look at it as the rules for photos online are a little bit like the rules for wearing a microphone around here. If you don’t want someone to hear it, you don’t say while you are wearing a microphone. If you don’t want someone to see the pictures, don’t put them online.

There is absolutely no control once it goes online. I don’t care if it says it’s personal, it’s private, whatever. Once it’s on there, somebody can actually copy it, paste it to their own websites or into their own computers. And even if you sanitize that site afterward, those people still have it.

And if you are a parent, and you have got teenagers, daughter, sons, and, and ,and this kinda, this Facebook craze, this MySpace craze is part of their daily socialization, how do you convince them that what can seem fun at one moment can become a nightmare / another moment.

Well, first of all, I think what Miss New Jersey did is, it probably did more for all of this than anybody of us could do. And so I think what you do (is) you talk to your child, you explain it to them , and then you have to supervise them. That’s the key word; you have to supervise your kids online.

I'll talk about supervising them in just a second but I think / a parent has(have) to say to a child, look, this is for your friends and your family. These are the people who are supposed to see these photos. (Right!) But it only takes one angry friend or one jealous friend to make these things public.

Exactly, and that’s where we say you do not have control, and so if you want to send photos to your friends or families, send them an email with that on. It doesn’t have to go into this public sphere.

So parents have to familiarize themselves with Facebook and MySpace and all these things, / at least they can help their children.

And it’s easy, most parents think that the technology is a bafflement beyond them, but it’s really very simple to start your own account, to go in, and be able to look and see what your children are doing.

Alright, so talk to me about different age groups and how much monitoring parents should be doing with their kids and these types of pages.

I think you start that with talk about who your kid is. There are some kids that are really good and really easy and all you have to do is just check it once in a while. But other kids who are squally and impulsive and you don’t trust their judgement. Well, / I would sit down and say, um, I'm paying for the Internet, what your site is on there is my site, it will embarrass me. I am gonna be checking it frequently and randomly.

Yeah, and parents should absolutely have the passwords, they should be able to get no matter what.

Or there is no site, I mean it's just very clear. I am paying for it, the password is mine too.

Dose the parent make the child responsible for everything on the site? In other words, you know, a friend can put something on my child’s Facebook account or what, MySpace page. So then is my child responsible for that?

Absolutely, and that’s the rule I use with my kid clients. it is that I don’t care what kind of language your friends are using, if it’s on there and it’s bad language, you are responsible. You either have to block them or you lose the site. And your language has to be very appropriate because people will judge you by who you associate with.

And as these kids get older, they get to be of college age or at least college application age, and of job age, these / accounts, these pages can come back to haunt them.

They are public, because, um, you know, the college admissions councils are now using them for grade school, and also employers, their HR departments are always going to look. So what I tell people to do is if you have to have an account, use your first name as your first name, your middle name as your last name, very difficult for other people to find out.

But again, the most important thing, it’s not private. If you put it on the Internet in any way, shape or form, it’s not private.

It's not private. And you wouldn't let your kid to go down the dark alley without supervision. Don’t let them / go into the dark alley of the Internet without supervision.

Ruth Peters, well said. Thanks very much.

Thank you, Matt!
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Last week, Miss New Jersey told us how someone was trying to blackmail her, threatening to make public embarrassing photographs that she posted on her face book page. And you might be wondering what are your kids posting and how can you protect them from prying and potentially dangerous eyes online.

You know, they are, they are not that bad, but they were meant to be private, and that’s made me feel very vulnerable that entire country has to see them now.

Amy Polenta may be a beauty cling, but she is no different from the average computer user to use social networking websites to post personal photos. My Space and Face Book collectively got more than 90 million users posting personal information and photos. An estimated 4.7 million are under the age of 18 on My Space and 4.3 million on Face Book. While most intends the photos they post to be viewed by close friends and family, the story of Miss New Jersey and that of American idol contester Nanty Illobaba offer sobering reminder. Even pictures meant to be kept private have a way of becoming public. In this new age of information, employers and school admission’s councils are now using these sites to access information about job candidates and potential students. My Space does offer privacy control over profiles in Face Books, limits access to people with the same network or groups. But there are still ways for people not connected to you to access personal information. And while devastating for her, the case of Miss New Jersey provides a valuable lesson for all internet users.

Nothing you post at internet is private, even if it’s in a privately accessed website.

Ruth peter is a tran-psychologist, hey, Ruth, good morning. Nice to have you back. (Good morning.) I looked at it as the rules for photos on line are a little bit like the rules for wearing a microphone around here. If you don’t want someone to hear it, you don’t say while you are wearing a microphone. If you don’t want someone to see the pictures, don’t put them online.

There is absolutely no control once it goes online. I don’t care if it says it’s personal, it’s private, whatever. Once it’s on there, somebody can actually copy and paced it to their own websites or onto their own computer. And if you sanitize that site afterward, those people still have it.

And if you are parent, you have got teenagers, daughter or sons, and this kinda, this Face Book craze, this My Space craze, part of their daily socialization, how do you convince them that what can seem fun in one moment can become a nightmare in another moment.

Well, first of all, I think Mr. Jersey did is he probably did more for all of this than anybody of us could do. And so I think what you do is talk to your child, you explain it to them, then you have to supervise them. That’s the key word; you have to supervise your kids online.

And talk about supervising them just a second but I think you apparent have to say to what child look, this is for your friends and family. These are the people who are supposed to see these photos. But it only takes one angry friend or one jealous friend to make these things public.

Exactly, and that’s where we say you do not have control, and so if you want to send photos to your friends or families, send them an email with that on. It doesn’t have to go into this public’s field.

So parents have to familiarize themselves with Face Book and My Space and all these things, so at least they can help their children.

And it’s easy, most parents think that the technology is bafflement beyond them, but it’s really very simple to start your own account, to go in, and be able to look and see what’s your children are doing.

Um, it’s talk to me about different age groups and how much monitoring parents should be doing with their kids and these steps of pagers.

I think you start there, we will talk about who your kid is. There are some kids that are really good and really easy and all you have to do is to check them once a while. But other kids who are squally and impulsive and you don’t trust their judgement. What I would sit down and say you are unpaying for the internet, what your site is on there is my site, it will embarrass me. I am going to check it frequently and randomly.

Yeah, and parents should absolutely have the passwords, they should be ought to gain no matter what.

Or there is no site, I mean it is very clear. I am paying for it, the password is mine too.

Dose the parent make the child responsible for everything on the site. In other words, you know, a friend can put something on my child’s Face Book, he can or what My Space page. So then is my child responsible for that?

Absolutely, and that’s the rule I use of my kid Chrianse. I don’t care what kind of language your friends are using. It’s on there and it’s bad language, you are responsible. You need either to block them or you lose the site. And your language has to be very appropriate, that coz people will judge you by who you associate with.

And as these kids get older, they get to be of college age or at least college application age, of job age, these can counts, these pages can come back to harm them.

They are public, because you know the college admission councils are now using them for grand school, also employers, their HR departments are always going to look. So what I tell people to do is you have that kind account, use your first name as your first name, your middle name as your last name, very difficult for other people to find out.

But again, the most important thing, it’s not private. If you put on the internet in any wish it perform, it’s not private.

It’s not private. You wouldn’t let your kids to go down the dark. Don’t leave them without supervision, don’t let them to go into the dark or the internet without supervision.

Roth Peters, well said. Thanks very much.

Thank you.
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Last week, Miss New Jersey told us that has someone was trying to blackmail her, stressing make public embarrassing photographs that she post on her Face Book pages and you might be wondering what your kids posting and how can you protect them from private and potentially dangerous eyes online. You know, they are, they are not that bad, but they were meant to be private, and that's making me feel very vulnerable that the entire country has to see them now. Amy Colombo may be a beauty queen, but she is no different from average computer user uses social networking websites to post personal photos. MySpace is Face book collected gallery more than 90 millions users posting personal information photos. As estimated 4.7 millions under the age of 18 on MySpace, and 4.3 millions on Face Book. One most intense photos they post did you by close friends and family. The stories of Miss New Jersey American Idol contestant Antonella Barbara offer a sobering reminder. Even picture is meant to be catching private have a way becoming public. In this new way information employers and school admission councils are now using these sites to access information about job candidates and potential students. MySpace offer privacy control for profiles than Face Books limited access people with the same net work for groups. But there are still waste of people not connect to you to access personal information and while David sitting for her, the case of Miss New Jersey provide valuable lesson for all Internet users. Nothing you post Internet is private even it’s in a privately access websites. Ruth Peter is a child psychology, hey, Ruth, good morning. Nice to have you back. Good morning. I, I ,I looked this as the roots for photos online a little bit like the roots wearing microphone around here, you don’t want to somebody hear you don’t see where you wearing the microphone you don’t want to some see the pictures don’t put them on line. There is actually no control once it goes online. I don’t care if it is personal with private whatever once somewhere somebody can actually copy and paste it to their own websites or enter on computer and even if you sanitize that site afterward, those people still have. If your parents have got teenagers, daughters, sons and these kinda, these Face Book crisis, MySpace crisis part daily social position how do you convince them that what can thing funny one moment can become nightmare another moment. Well, first of all I think what Miss New Jersey did is, it probably did more for all of this than anybody of us could do. And so I think what you should do is talk to your child, you explain to them and then you have to supervise net the kids’ worlds you have to supervise your kids on line. I’ll talk about supervising means just second but I think your parents have to say to a child. Look this is for your friends and your family this is people for seeing these photos but it only takes one angry friend or one jealous friend to make this thing problem. Exactly that’s what I want to say, you do not have control and so if you want to send these photos to your friends and families, send them emails with that on. It doesn't have to go into this public sphere.
So parents have to familiarize themselves with Face Book and MySpace and all these things can help their children. And this is easy most parents think that technology is bubbling beyond them, but it’s really simple to start your own account, to go in and be able to look and see what your children are doing. Talk to me about different age groups and how much monitoring parents should be doing with their kids and these types of pages. I think it start with talk about who your kid is. There are some kids that are really good and really easy and all you have to do just check it once in a while but other kids are squally and impulsive and you don’t trust their judgment. What I just say is I paid Internet, what your site is on there is my site, it will embarrass me. I’m going to check it frequently and randomly. Yes parents should absolutely have the password they should be able to get no matter it was. Oh there is with no site, I mean it is very clear, I paid for, the password was mine too. Dose parents make the child responsible for every thing on the sites, in another word no friends can put something on my child Face Book or MySpace page, so that’s my child responsible for that …… Absolutely, and that's the rule I use my kids quite, I don’t care what kind of language your friends were using, if it is on there and bad language, you are responsible. You either have to block them or you loose the sites, and your language has to be very proper because people will judge by who you associate with. And these kids get older, they get to be of college age or at least college application age, or have job age, these accounts, these pages can come back to hang them. They are public because of that you know the college admissions councils are now using them for class school and also employers, their each department are always going to look, so what I tell people to do is if you have an account, use first name as your first name, your middle name as your last name, very difficult for other people to find out. For again, the most important thing is not private, you put any on Internet in any way, shape pr form, it’s not private. It’s not private, you wouldn’t let your kids go down the dark alley without supervision. Don't let them go into the dark alley of the Internet without supervision. Ruth Peters, well said. Thanks very much.
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Last week ,Ms Jew told us how someone was trying to blackmail her ,threating to make public embarrassing photographs.and she posted on face book page and you might be wondering what your key's posting and how can you protect them from prying and potentially dangerous eyes online.

 

You know, there not that bad they were might to be private and that making me feel very vulnerable that the entire country has to see them now.

 

Amy Polen may be a beauty queen ,but she's no difference from the average computer user using social networking website to post personal photos.Myspace and face book collectively gather more than 90 million users posting personal informations and photos .and estimated 4.7 milions are under the age of 18 on Myspace ,and 4.3 million on facebook .one most intend for the photo they post to be by close friends and family the story of miss new and that of american idol contestant A,offer a sobering reminder .even pictures might to be  catch private have a way to becoming public.In this new age of information ,employers and school admission conciles now using  this sites to access information about job candidates and potential students .Mypace does offer privacy control for profile and facebooks,limited access to people with same the network or groups.But there still ways for people not connected to you to access personal information  and while devastating for her ,the case of miss new provides a valuable lesson for all internet users.

 

Nothing you post on internet private even if it's in privately access to website .

Ruth,Peters is a child phycologists ,hey,ruth,good morning,good morning.

If i look at this as the rule for photos online a little bit like the rules for wearing the microphone around here .if you don't want someone hear it, you don't say while you wearing a microphone ,you don't want to see the picture don't put them online.

 

There is abusolutely no control ones goes online.and i don't care if it's says such as persoanal like private whatever.once it's on there ,sb can actually copy it, paste it to their own website or ran into their own computer,and even if you sanitize that site afterwards those people still have.

If your a parent and you got the teenagers ,daughters ,sons,and this can't facebook craze,mypacse craze ,this part of their daily socialization. how do you convinced them what can seem fun at one moment can become a nightmare another moment.

 

Well,first of all ,i think miss NEW did is.It probably did more for all of this anybody else can do ,and so i think what you do ,you talk to your child ,you explain to and when you have to supervise them,that's the key word ,you have to supervise your kids online.,

 

I'll talk about supervise them in just a second book i just a parent has to say to a child ,look ,this is for your friends,for your family ,these are the people who supposed to see these people.right,but it only takes one angry friend or one jealous friends to make this things public,

Exactly,that's what we say you do not have control and so if you want to sent this photots to your friends or your families.sent them email with that on .It doesn't have to go into the public's fear.

So parents have to familiarlize themselves with facebook and myspace all these things ,at least they can help their children,

 

And it's easy.most parents think that the technology is a bafflement beyond but it's really very simple to start your own account to go end and be able to look and see what your children are doing.

So talking to me about different ages and groups how much monitoring parents should be doing with their kids at these types pages.

 

I think you start that with talk about who your kid is /there are some kids are really goods,and really easy and all you have todo is checked it once in a while,but other kids are squarrlly and implusive and don't trust in judgement ,what i sit down and say ,i paying for the internet what you sit is on there is my site and it would embarrass me , and i would be checking it frequently and randomly.

 

YEAH,and parents should abusolutely have the password ,they should be able to get no matter was,

Oh,there is no site,i mean this very clear ,i'm paying for it ,the password it mine too,

Dose the parents make the child responsible for everything on the site  ,in other words you know a friend they can put sth  on my child's facebook  account or what myspace page  ,so is my child responsible for that?

 

Abosolutely ,that's the rule i use my kid clients, that is i don't care what kind of language your friends are using .if it is on there and it's bad language ,you are responsible ,you either have to block them or you lose the site,and you language has to be very appropriate because people will judge you by you associate with.

 

And these kids get older ,they get to be of college age or at least college applicants age or of job age these  accounts ,this pages can come back to haunt them.

 

They are public because um,you know ,the college admission concile are using them for gradutes school also emplyers their HR departments are always going to look so what i tell the people to do is if you have any account ,use your first name as your first name,your middle name as your last name ,very difficult for other people to find out.

 

But again the most important thing is not private ,if you put it on the internet in the any way,should take form ,it's not private.

 

It's not private ,and you wouldn't get your kids to go down the dark alley,without supervision ,don't let them to go into the dark alley of internet without supervision.

 

Ruth Peter well say,thank you very much.

 

thanks matt.

 

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Last week, Miss New Jersey told us how someone was trying to blackmail her, threatening to make public embarrassing photographs that she posted on her face book page. And you might be wondering what are your kids posting and how can you protect them from prying and potentially dangerous eyes online.

You know, they are, they are not that bad, but they were meant to be private, and that’s made me feel very vulnerable that entire country has to see them now.

Amy Polenta may be a beauty cling, but she is no different from the average computer user to use social networking websites to post personal photos. My Space and Face Book collectively got more than 90 million users posting personal information and photos. An estimated 4.7 million are under the age of 18 on My Space and 4.3 million on Face Book. While most intends the photos they post to be viewed by close friends and family, the story of Miss New Jersey and that of American idol contester Nanty Illobaba offer sobering reminder. Even pictures meant to be kept private have a way of becoming public. In this new age of information, employers and school admission’s councils are now using these sites to access information about job candidates and potential students. My Space does offer privacy control over profiles in Face Books, limits access to people with the same network or groups. But there are still ways for people not connected to you to access personal information. And while devastating for her, the case of Miss New Jersey provides a valuable lesson for all internet users.

Nothing you post at internet is private, even if it’s in a privately accessed website.

Ruth peter is a tran-psychologist, hey, Ruth, good morning. Nice to have you back. (Good morning.) I looked at it as the rules for photos on line are a little bit like the rules for wearing a microphone around here. If you don’t want someone to hear it, you don’t say while you are wearing a microphone. If you don’t want someone to see the pictures, don’t put them online.

There is absolutely no control once it goes online. I don’t care if it says it’s personal, it’s private, whatever. Once it’s on there, somebody can actually copy and paced it to their own websites or onto their own computer. And if you sanitize that site afterward, those people still have it.

And if you are parent, you have got teenagers, daughter or sons, and this kinda, this Face Book craze, this My Space craze, part of their daily socialization, how do you convince them that what can seem fun in one moment can become a nightmare in another moment.

Well, first of all, I think Mr. Jersey did is he probably did more for all of this than anybody of us could do. And so I think what you do is talk to your child, you explain it to them, then you have to supervise them. That’s the key word; you have to supervise your kids online.

And talk about supervising them just a second but I think you apparent have to say to what child look, this is for your friends and family. These are the people who are supposed to see these photos. But it only takes one angry friend or one jealous friend to make these things public.

Exactly, and that’s where we say you do not have control, and so if you want to send photos to your friends or families, send them an email with that on. It doesn’t have to go into this public’s field.

So parents have to familiarize themselves with Face Book and My Space and all these things, so at least they can help their children.

And it’s easy, most parents think that the technology is bafflement beyond them, but it’s really very simple to start your own account, to go in, and be able to look and see what’s your children are doing.

Um, it’s talk to me about different age groups and how much monitoring parents should be doing with their kids and these steps of pagers.

I think you start there, we will talk about who your kid is. There are some kids that are really good and really easy and all you have to do is to check them once a while. But other kids who are squally and impulsive and you don’t trust their judgement. What I would sit down and say you are unpaying for the internet, what your site is on there is my site, it will embarrass me. I am going to check it frequently and randomly.

Yeah, and parents should absolutely have the passwords, they should be ought to gain no matter what.

Or there is no site, I mean it is very clear. I am paying for it, the password is mine too.

Dose the parent make the child responsible for everything on the site. In other words, you know, a friend can put something on my child’s Face Book, he can or what My Space page. So then is my child responsible for that?

Absolutely, and that’s the rule I use of my kid Chrianse. I don’t care what kind of language your friends are using. It’s on there and it’s bad language, you are responsible. You need either to block them or you lose the site. And your language has to be very appropriate, that coz people will judge you by who you associate with.

And as these kids get older, they get to be of college age or at least college application age, of job age, these can counts, these pages can come back to harm them.

They are public, because you know the college admission councils are now using them for grand school, also employers, their HR departments are always going to look. So what I tell people to do is you have that kind account, use your first name as your first name, your middle name as your last name, very difficult for other people to find out.

But again, the most important thing, it’s not private. If you put on the internet in any wish it perform, it’s not private.

It’s not private. You wouldn’t let your kids to go down the dark. Don’t leave them without supervision, don’t let them to go into the dark or the internet without supervision.

Roth Peters, well said. Thanks very much.

Thank you.

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