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[访谈录] 【整理】2009-06-29&07-02 如何跟问题男/女接触

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Who doesn't have difficult colleague,friend or family member?
My sister was that at onr time I mean she was crazy.it's difficult to pt up with them.
The bad news oftentimes you are forced to interact with these people on a daily basis and they could have a pesonality disorder but the good news is there are simple ways you can learn to deal with their behaviors.
A person with a paranoid personality someone who is very much preoccupied with the loyalty ofother people.It's person who constantly scans the environment and other people looking for possible indications or sign of some sort of deception.
The solution,Doctor Twardon suggests:stick to the conversation topic that are safe and not too personal.Aviod any signs of criticism or attack.And refrain for using language that is patronizing or condescending.
A narcissistic person really believe that she is better than you essentially and that because I'm another person I'm beeter than you,I'm entitled to expect you to do thing for me.I'm entitle to be focused exclusively on my own need and kind of disregard yours.
So how do you deal with those ego maniacs?Don't be defensive with this person.It can trgger a fight and try to make yourself an important part of his or her world in order to keep up the relationship.
That is essentially a person who is dealing with a lot of internal,call it security or internal anxiety and internal confflicts and the way of resolving internal conflicts is by organizing the external environment.
Doctor Twadon is talking about obsessive compulsive disorder which can make others jumpy.try acknowledging their hard work with compliments.Compliments with them when possible and also aviod conflict.And doctor Twardon remind us we all have a little bit of these personalities in ourself so treat others as you would like to be treated.
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