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Who doesn’thave a difficult colleague, friend or family member?

- My sister was that at one time I mean she was crazy.

- It’s reallydifficult to put up with them.

The bad news, oftentimes you are forced to interact with thesepeople on a daily basis. And they could have a personality disorder. But thegood news is that there are simple ways you can learn to deal with theirbehaviors.

- A person with a paranoid personality, someone who is very much preoccupiedwith the loyalty of other people. It is a person who constantly scans theenvironment and other people looking for possible indications of signs of some sort of deception.

The solutionthat Doctor _____ suggests:
Stick toconversations that are safe and not too personal;
Avoid any signs of criticisms or attacks.
And refrainfrom using language that is patronizing or condescending.

- A narcissistic person really believesthat she is better than you, essentially, and that because I’m another person, I’m better than you, I’m entitled toexpect you to do things for me, I’m entitled to be focused exclusively on myown needs and kind of disregard yours.

So, how do youdeal with those ego maniacs?
Don’t bedefensive with this person. It could trigger afight.
And you canmake yourself an important part of his or her world in order to keep up therelationship.

- That isessentially a person who is dealing with a lot internal,call it security or internal anxiety andinternal conflicts. And the way of resolving internal conflicts is byorganizing the external environment.

Doctor _____ istalking about obsessive compulsive disorder which can make others jumpy:
Try acknowledgingtheir hard work with compliments.
Compromise withthem when possible.
And also avoid conflicts.
And Doctor_____ reminds us that we all have a little bit of these personalities inourselves, so treat others as you would like tobe treated.

I’m _____, FoxNews.
Just 说说而已!
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