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Who doesn't have a difficult colleague,friend or family member?My sister was that one time I mean she was crazy.It's really difficult to put over them.The bad news often time you're forced to interact with these people on a daily basis.And they could have a persoanlity disorder.But the good news is there're simple ways you can learn to deal with their behaviors. a person's part of personality someone who is very much preocuppied with loyality of other people.It is personal who constantly constant environment and other people are looking for possible indications of science or some sort of deception.The solution Doctor Totten suggests stick to conversation topics that are safe and not too personal.Avoid any science of crititms or attack and refrain from using language that is patronizing or condescending.This is these people are really believed she is better than you essentially and that because as a person,I'm better than you.I'm entitled to expect you to do things for me.I am entitled to be focused  exculsively on my own needs and kind of desregard of yours.So how do you deal with this ego-maniacs?Don' be deffensive with these persons,it can trigger a fight and try to make yourself an important part of his or her world in order to keep up their relationship.That is essentially a person who is  dealing with a lot of internal colliding security or internal anxiety or internal conflicts.And the way of resoling internal conflicts is by organizing their external environment.Doctor Totten is talking about obsessive compulsive disorder which can make others jumpy.Try acknowledging their hard work with compliments.Compromice with them when possible and also avoid conflict.And Doctor Totten reminds us we all have a little bit of these personalities in ourselves.So treat others as you will like to be treated.I'm Docter Manny,Fox News.
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