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发表于 2009-7-14 17:31
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Hi, I’m Donna Barns. I’m a life and relationship coach and an owner of NY dating coach in New York City.
In this clip, we’ll talk about making a good first impression and you only get a chance to do that, right? So, a real great way to make a first impression is to make eye contact and really take interest in the person that you’re meeting. Um, first of all, remember their name. If when you first meet somebody, you, you use their name in a sentence when you, um, talk to them and you let them know that you’ve heard their name that you listened. Um, and allow them to be in the spotlight. You know, share about yourself and review something, but don’t monopolize the conversation; it’s not all about you. It’s, even you are the most interesting person in the world, people want to talk about themselves too. So, be a great listener, ask questions, and really want to get to know other person. And, you know, people like to talk about themselves. So, if you give them the opportunity to do that, then they are gonna like you. So, um, make sure that you dress nice, and you have good posture, and, um, don’t be negative. Don’t complain about things, no one wants to hear your problems. That’s not, you know, anything for a first meeting. Just be positive, be yourself, don’t be phony, and, um, be a good listener.
This is Donna Barns from New York City. |
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