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[Homework]【整理】2009-12-06&12-12 在爱情关系中建立信任
hi,I am Donna barnes ,i am a life and relationship coach and owner of ny dating coach in the NewYork city.in this clip we'll talk about how to bulid trust in the relationship.that is exactly what you do ,you have to bulid trust ,trust has to be earned.i d like to say when you first meet somebody ,you can give them the benifit of doubt ,but that is not trust yet. you have to go through time together,
experience situtions and found out if you can truly trust them.so that means when you first get into a relationship,don't reval too much about yourself,don not put your whole life out there on the table for the first person in the first meeting.
you don't if that is safe with them ,power is knowknowlege ,don not give your away ,so ,if you really want to bulid trust in the relationship you need to communicate ,you need to talk to each other ,you need to stablish boundarys and guardlines of what you are comfortable with ,and you go through things,and if something is bothering you, take the time and aay hey,could we talk about this ,i,i am feeling a little insecure about this, and i am feeling a little bothered ,and if you can bulid that over time ,that is general trust.
I am Donna barnes ,life and relationship coach in the NewYork city.
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