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Who Should Pay On a Date?

 

In dating, the man will usually pay on the first date, but there's nothing wrong with a dominant woman paying for dinner. Create a balanced financial situation with tips from our life and relationship coach, Donna Barnes.

 

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Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a Life and Relationship Coach, and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City.



In this clip, we'll talk about who should pay on a date. Well, everybody kind of assumes that the guy is going to pay on the first date, and he should, but if a woman asks the guy out, and she wants to be the dominant in the relationship, then maybe she should pay for the first date.



But as you start to date, and you're spending more time together, do a reality check about the balance of the relationship. If you're dating somebody who's making a lot more money than you do, then they can pick up a lot more checks. But if it's a balanced financial situation, then it doesn't hurt to pick up a check here and there, or pick up smaller things.



The guy should get the bigger things like dinner, but you could get dessert, or maybe, you know, if you go to get ice cream afterwards, or if you go to the movies, you can pay for the movies. So sharing the finances really does help a relationship, if the financial situations are pretty much balanced.



So let the man be the man. Let him get the checks in the beginning, but then show him that you appreciate him, and that you're not taking advantage of him, by contributing too.



This is Donna Barnes, Life and Dating Coach, in New York City.





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Bingr8

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Hi, I am Donna Barnes ,I may life and relationship coach and honor of NY dating coach in NYC ,in this clip we talk about who  should pay on the date , well everybody kinda assume that the guy is gonna pay on the first date ,and he should but if the woman asks the guy out and she wants to be the dominate in the relationship ,then maybe she should pay for the first date , but if she start to the date and you are spending more time together , do reality check about the balance of the relationship ,if you dating somebody who is making a lot more money than you do ,then let him pick up a lot more checks but if it’s a balance financial situation , then it doesn't hurt pick up the checks here and there, or pick up smaller things ,the guy should get the bigger things like dinner , but you could get dessert or maybe you know ,if you go to ice cream afterwards or if you go to the movie, you could pay for the movies, so sharing the finance is really does help relationship ,If the financial situation is pretty much balance ,so let the man be the man , let him get the checks in the beginning but then showing that you are appreciating and you aren’t take advantage of him by contributing too. This is Donna Barnes life in dating coach in NYC

fire0204

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Hi, I'm  Donna Barnes, I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York City.

In this clip, we'll talk about who should pay on a date. Well, everybody kinda assume that the guy's gonna pay on the first date and he should. But if a woman asks the guy out and she wants to be the dominate in the relationship, then maybe she should pay for the first date.

But as you start to date, and you are spending more time together, do a reality, check about the balance of the relationship. If you are dating somebody who is making a lot more money than you do, then make him pick up a lot more checks that could // balanced financial situation, then it's hurt to pick up a check here now, or pick up smaller things. The guy should get the bigger things like dinner, but you could get dessert or maybe, you know, could get an icecream afterwards, or could go to the movies, you could pay for the movies. So sharing the finances really does help the relationship if the financial situations are pretty much balanced.

So let the man be the man, let him get the checks in the beginning, but then show him that you appreciate them, you are not taking advantage of him by contributing too.

This is Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.

princess_kiko

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Hi, I’m xx I’m a life and relationship coach in honor of NY dating coach in New York city. In this clip we’ll talk about who should pay on the date. Well, everybody gonna to think that the guy should pay on the first date, and he should. But if the woman asks the guy out and she wants to be the dominate in the relationship, then maybe she should pay for the first date. But if you start to date and you spending more time together do reality check about the balance of the relationship if you dating somebody who is earning a lot more money than you do. Then he can pick up a lot more checks. But if you have balanced financial situation, then it doesn’t hurt to pick up check here now, or pick up the smaller things. The guy should get the bigger things like dinner, but you could get dessert or maybe you could get ice-cream afterwards or maybe the movies, you can pay for the movies. So sharing the finances really does help to relationship if the financial situation is pretty much balance. So let the man be the man, let him get the checks in the beginning, but then showing you are appreciating and you are not taking adavantage of him by contributing too.
This is xx life and dating coach in New York city.

littledog21

HW
Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and realtionship coach and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City.
In this clip,we talk about who should pay on the date. Well,everybody can sawns the guys gonna pay on the first date. And in sure. But a woman ask the guy out,and she wants be the dominant in the realtionhip,then she may be should pay on the first date.
But you start to date and spending more time together,do reality check about those
banlance of the realtionship.Because dating somebody make a lot of money than you do.Then making can take a  lot  more checks ,but it's  balanced financial situation take her a check now. Pick up small things, the  guys she get big things  like dinner,but you could get a desert or maybe, you know, she gonna a exporting afterwards,go to the movies, take the movies.So sharing the finance, really does help the realtionship.If the finicial stituation is pretty much banlance,so let the man get the woman like get a check in the begining,but share you apreciate you're not taking the advantage of right of sharing here.
This is Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in  New York City.

sherry90

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Hi, I’m Donna Barnes. I’m a life and a relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in NY City.

In this clip we talk about who should pay on the date. Well, everybody * assumes the guy’s gonna pay on the first date and he should, but if a woman asks the guys out and she wants to be the dominator in the relationship, may be she should pay for the first date. But it is Saturday and you spending more time together, do reality check about the balance of the relationship, if you dating somebody is making a lot more money than you do, then they can pick up a lot more checks. But if it's a balance financial situation and it doesn’t hurt pick up check here and there or pick up smaller things. The guy should get bigger things like dinner but you could get the dessert or may be you know if you get ice-cream after a walk, and if you go to the movies, you could pay for the movies. So sharing the finances really dose help relationship if the financial situations are pretty much balance. so let the man be the man, letting him gets the checks at beginning, but then show how that you are appreciating them, you not taking advantage of them by contributing too.

I’m Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in NY City.

盛白杨

Hi, I'm Dona Barnes. I made live and relationship coach and honor of NY dating coach in New York city.
In this play we'll talk about who should pay on the date. Well everybody is kind assume that the guy's gonna pay on the first date and he should. But if a woman asks the guy out and she wants to be dominate in the relationship, then maybe she should pay for the first date. But as you saw today, you're spending more time together do reality check about the balance of the relationship. If you dating somebody makes a lot of money than you do, then let him pick up a lot more checks. But if you get a balance financial situation, it's some hurt to pick up the check here in there.
We will pick up some smaller things. The guy should get the bigger things like dinner, but you could get dessert, or maybe you know, if you go to get ice-cream afterwards.  If you go to the movies, you can pay for the movies.
So sharing the finance really does help the relationship if the financial situation is pretty much balanced. So let the man, give the man. Let him gives the checks in the beginning, and then show him you appreciate them, you are not taking advantage of him by contributing too.
This is Dona Barnes, live and dating coach in New York city.

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halfbodhi

Hi, I am ***, I am a life and relationship coach and the owner of NY dating caoch in New York City. This clip is about who should pay on the date. Well, everybody can assume that the guy is going to pay for the first date and they should. If a woman ask a guy out and she wants to be the dominant in the relationship, maybe she should pay for the first date. But as you start the date, and you are spending more time together, do reality check about the balance about the the relationship. If you are dating somebody who is makeing a lot more money than you do, then make the people little more check, because if you get a balanced financial situation, it does't work because the check ** here. Or pick up smaller things, the guy should get the bigger things, like dinner, you can get desert, or maybe you get out after words, you get the movies, you pay for the movies. So, sharing the finance really does help relationship if the financial situation is prety much balanced. So, let the man be the man, let him get the check at the beginning, then show that you appreciate it and you will not take advantage of it by contributing to. ***, life and dating coach in New York City.
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虫虫学习时间

Hi,I'm Donna Barnes,I'm your life and relationship coach in owner of NY Dating Coach in New York city.And this clip we'll talk about who should pay on the date.Everyboday kind of soons the guys gonna pay on the first day and they should,but if a woman asks the guy out and she wants to be the dominant in the relationship then maybe she should pay for the first day.But if you start to date and you're spending more time together ,it do reality to check about the balance of the relationship if you're dating somebody who's making a lot more money than you do,then they can pick up a lot more checks but it's a banlance financial situation,it doesn't hurt pick up check care,you know,or pick up smaller things.The guy should get the bigger things like dinner,but you could get disert or maybe you can pay for the ice-cream afterwards and if you go to movies,you pay for the movies.So sharing the finance is really does couple in relationship if the financial situation is pretty much balance.So let the man be the man ,let him get checks at the beginning but then show him that you appreciate him and you're not taking the manager  buying treapyting,too.This is Donna Barnes life and dating coach in New York city.
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平子真子

HW

Hi, I'm Dona Barnes, a new life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York City.

In this clip  we'll talk about who should pay on the date. Well, everybody  can resume that the guys gonna pay on the first day and he should. But if a woman asks the guy out and  sha wants to be the dominate in the relationship, then maybe she should pay for the first date. But if you start to date and you're spending more time together,  you do reality check about the balance of the relationship.

If dating somebody is making a lot more money than you do, then they can pick up of a lot more checks. But if it's a balance financil situation, it doesn't hurt because they check here and there, or pick up smaller things. The guy should get the bigger things like dinner, but you could get desert, or maybe you can  offer an icecream afterwards. If you go to the movies, you can pay for the movies.

So, sharing the financies really does help your relationship if the financial situation is pretty much balanced. So, let the man be the man. Let him get the checks in the beginning, but then show to him that you appreciate him and you're not taking advantage of him by introverting, too.

This is Dana Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.

anrinecat

Hi I am Donna B, I am a life and a relation coach and honor of NY dating coach in New York City. In this -- talk about who should pay on the date? Well everybody -- the guys are gonna pay on the first date. If the woman asks the guy out and she wants to be the dominate in the relationship then may be she should pay for the first date. But if you start a date and you spending more time together, do realty check about the banlance of the relationship if you dating somebody who is making a lot of money than you do the -- of more checque -- banlance finanial situation it is hard to pick up cheque here or pick up smaller things. The guy should gets the bigger things like dinner but you could get desert or maybe you know figure the ice cream afterwards you figure the movies you can pay for the movies. So sharing the finance is really does help the relationship if the financial situation is pretty much banlance.So let the man big man, letting he gets the cheques movie beginning, but then show him your appericiate you not taking the advantage -- you --.  Donna B, life and dating coach, NYC.

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briannayu

Homework
hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm your life and relationship coach, an owner of NY dating coach in New York City. In this clip, we talk about who should pay on a date.
Everybody understands that the guy pays on the first date. And he should. But if a woman asks the guy out, she wants to be dominant in the relationship. Maybe she should pay for the first date. But if they start to date, spending more time together, the reality is to check out the balance of the relationship. if you date somebody who is making a lot more money than you do, then make him pick up a lot more checks. So if it's a balance of financial situation, it doesn't hurt to pick up the check now, or pick up smaller things. The guy should get the bigger thing, like the dinner, but you can get dessert or maybe, you know, you can get icecream afterwards. If you go to the movies, you could pay for the movies. So sharing the finance really does help relationships. If the financial situation is pretty much balanced, so let the men be the mem, let him get the checks at the new beginning, showing how you appreciate him, and not take advantage of him by contributing  too.
This is Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.

刘铁玲

Hi,I'm Donna Barms, I'am a life and replationship coach in a owner of NY Dating coach in New York city.In this clip we should talk about who should pay on the date.well,everyboday can assume that the guys is gonna pay on the first date and they should, if a woman asks the guy out and she wants to be dominated in the relationship, maybe she should pay for the first date.but if he starts a date, and you are spending more time together, do a reality check about the balance of the relationship, if you are dating with someone who are making a lot of more money than you do, then let him pick up a lot of more checks.If it is a balance financial situation,it doesn't hurt to pick up checks here now.To pick up smaller things, the guy should pay for the things like dinner,but you could get dessert or maybe you know go to the ice cream afterwards.go to the movies, you can pay for the movies, so sharing the finance really does help realtionship, if the financial situation is pretty much balanced.So let the man be the man, let him get checks at the beginning, but then show him that you are appreciateing him and you are not taking advantage of him by contributing too.
This is Donna Barms, a life and dating coach in New York city.

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麦远冬

HW:
Hi I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and relationship coach, and owner of NY dating coach in New York City.
In this clip we talk about who should pay on the date. Well, everybody kind of assumes that the guy's gonna pay on the first date, and he should. But if a woman askes the guy out and she wants to be the dominee in the relationship, then maybe she should pay for the first date.
But if you start to date and you're spending more time tonight, it's true you'll check about the balance of the relationship. If you are dating somebody who is making a lot money than you do, then let him pick up lot more checks. But if you could balance financial situation, then it does't work to pick up check here, or pick up smaller things.
The guy should get the bigger things like dinner, but you could get dessert or maybe, you know, you go to get icecream after work. If you go to the movies, you can pay for the movies. So sharing the finance really does help relationship if the financial situation is pretty much balance.
So let the man be the man, let him get the checks in the beginning, but then show him that you appreciate it and you are not taking advantage of him by contributing too.
This is Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.

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felgn

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