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Dating Red Flags

 

A few red flags in the dating world include people who are controlling, people who talk about their exes, negativity, moving too fast and bad listeners. Look out for red flags when dating with tips from our life and relationship coach in this episode of BOK on dating advice.

 

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Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City.



In this clip we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.



Number one is if he's controlling or she's controlling, they don't give you an opinion, they don't, they've got to have control of every situation, huge red flag.



Second red flag is they talk about their ex. Don't talk about your exs on relationship. This is about you and them, it has nothing to do with anybody else, leave them out of the picture. If they're talking too much about their ex, it means they're probably not over them yet, and, you know, or they could be, if they're being nasty about them, that's not a good thing either.



The next red flag is if they're negative. Everything they say is a complaint, this person is lousy, they're complaining about everything, negative people are not too good.



If they want to move the relationship too fast, that's a red flag, there should be a slow pace to a relationship. If they want to pull you into everything that they're doing at the most, you know, they're probably codependent, it's not a good sign if they're moving too fast.



And secondly is if they don't listen to you when you talk. If they're not remembering things you say, if they're constantly interrupting you, that's a huge red flag.



I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.



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Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City. In this clip we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.

No.1 is if he's controlling or she's controlling, they don't give you an opinion, they don't, they've got to have control of every situation, huge red flag.

Second red flag is they talk about their ex. Don't talk about your exs on relationship. This is about you and them, it has nothing to with anybody else, leave them out of the picture. If they're talking too much about their ex, it means they're probably not over them yet, and, you know or if they're being nasty about them, it's not a good thing either.

The next red flag is if they're negative. If everything they say is a complaint, this person is lousy, they're complaining about everything, negative people are not too good.

If they want to move the relationship too fast, that's a red flag, there should be a slow pace to relationship. If they want to pull you into everything that they're doing, they're probably codependent, it’s not a good sign, they're moving too fast.

And secondly is if they don't listen to you when you talk. If they're not remembering things you say, if they're constantly interrupting you, that's a huge red flag.

I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.

polartag

Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and relationship coach, and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York city.

In this clip we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.

No.1 is if he is controlling or she is controlling, they don't give you an opinion, they don't, they gotta have control of every situation, huge red flag.  

Second red flag is they talk about their ex. Don't talk about your exs on relationship, this is you and them, has nothing to do with anybody else, leave them out of the picture. If they're talking too much about their exs, it means they're probably not over them yet. And you know, or they could be, they're being nasty about them, and that's not a good thing either.

The next red flag is if they're negtive, everything they say is compaints, this person is lousy, they complained about everything, negtive people are not too good.

If they want to move that relationship to fast, that's a red flag. There should be a slow pace to relationship, if they wanna pull you into everything that they're doing at the most. You know, they're probably co-dependents, it's not a good sign if they're moving too fast.

And secondly is if they don't listen to you when you talk, if they're not remembering things  you say, they're constantly interrupting you, that's a huge red flag.

I'm Donna Barnes, Life and Dating coach in New York city.

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loo00

Hi, I'm Donna .., I'm a life and relationship coach, of NY Dating Coach in New York city.

In this clip we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.

No.1 is if he is controlling or she is controlling, they don't give you an opinion, they don't,  gotta have to control every situation, huge red flag.  

Second red flag is they talk about their ex. Don't talk about your exs on relationship, this is about you and them, has nothing to do with anybody else, leave ....the picture. If you talk  too much about their exs, it means they're probably not over them yet. And you know, or they could be, they're being nasty about them, and that's not a good thing either.

The next red flag is if they're negtive, everything they say is compaints, this person is lousy, they complained about everything, negtive people are not too good.

If they want to move that relationship to fast, that's a red flag. There should be a slow pace to relationship, if they wanna pull you into everything that....most. You know, they're probably co-dependents, it's not a good sign if they're moving too fast.

And secondly is they don't listen to you when you talk, if they don't remember things  you say, they constantly interrupt you, that's a huge red flag.

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Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a Life and relationship coach and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City, In this clip we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.

NO.1 is if he is controlling or she is controlling ,they don't give you an opinion and they don't  , they’ve got had to control every situation huge red flag.

Second red flag is they is they talk about their ex, don't talk about your ex on your relationship ,this is about you and them has nothing to do with anybody else ,leave them out of the picture, if they’re talking too much about the their ex , means they are probably not over them yet, and you know , or they could be , they will be nasty about them it's not a good thing neither

The next red flag is if they are negative everything they say is complain , this person is lousy , they complain about everything ,negative people are not too good ,if they wanna move their relationship too fast , that’s a red flag , you should be a slow pace to relationship, they want to pull you in the everything that they are doing at the most, you know ,they are probably co-dependent, it’s not a good sign ,if they are moving too fast, and secondly it’s they don't listen to you when you talk if they are not remembering thing you say if they constantly interrupted you that’s a huge red flag

I'm Donna Barnes,Life and Dating coach in NYC ^^

picker

HOMEWORK

   Hi , I am Donna Barnes , I am a life and relationship coach and the owner of NY dating coach in New York city .

   In this clip , we talk about the five biggest red flags with dating .

   Number one is he is controlling or she is controlling . They don't give your an opinion . They don't . They get have controled every siuations , huge red flag .

   Second red flag is they talk about their ex . Do not talk about your ex on relationship . This is about your and them . It has nothing to do with anybody else even others are out of picture .  If they talk too much about their ex means they probably not over them yet . And you know , if they are / about them . it is not a good thing either .

   The next red flag is if they are negative . Everything they say is complaint / or complaint about every thing . Negative people are not too good .
If they want move the relationship too fast . That is a red flag . There should be slow pace to relationship . They want pull you in the everything they are / at the most . you konw they probably / . It is not a good sign . They move too fast .

   And secondly if they don't listen to you when you talk . If they are not remembering thing you say . they're constantly interrupting you, that's a huge red flag.

I'm Donna Barnes, Life and Dating coach in New York city

msknownone

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Hi, I'm Donna Barns. I'm a life and relationship coach. And owner of NY dating coach in New York City.

In this clip we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.

Number one is if he's controlling or she's controlling, they don't give you an opinion, they don't ..They've got to have control of every situation. Huge red flag.

Second red flag is they talk about their ex, don't talk about your exes on a relationship. This is about you and them, has nothing to do with anybody else, leave them out the picture. If they are talking too much about their ex, means they are probably not over them yet, and, you know, or they could be nasty about them. That's not a good thing either.

Then next red flag is if they are negative. Everything they say is complain, this person is lousy, they complain about everything. Negative people are not too good.

If they want to move their relationship too fast, that's a red flag. They should be slow pace to a relationship. If they want to pull you in to everything that they are doing at the most, you know, they are probably codependent. It's not a good sign. They are moving too fast.

And secondly, if they don't listen to you, when you talk. If they are not remembering things you say, they're constantly interrupting you, that's a huge red flag.

I'm Donna Barns, life and dating coach in New York City.

ctony012

HW
    Hi, I'm a life and realationship coach and owner of NY datting coach in New York city.
    In this clip we talk about five biggest red flags with dating. NO.1 is if he can controling or she is controling, they don't give you an oppion, they don't, they got have control every situation， huge red flag.
    Second red flag is they talk about their ex, don't talk about your ex on relationship, this is about you and them, has nothing to do anybody else, we put them out of the picture. If you talk too much about the ex, means the propably not over them yet. And you konw, or they could be, nasty about them that's not a good thing either.
   The next red flag is be negative, everything they said is complain this person's lousy, they complain about everything negative people are not too good.
   If they want to move the realationship too fast that's a red flag. You should be slow pace to relation they want to pull you into everything that they're doing at the most.
   You konw they're probably co-dependent that's not a good sign if they moving too fast. And secondly is if they don't listen to when you talk, if they're not remembering things you say to constantly and interrupting you is a huge red flag.

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Jennybabe

Hi,I'm Donna Barnus, i'm a life and relationship coach,and owner of NYdating coach of New York city.
This clip we will talk about five red flags of dating.
NO.1 is if he is controlling and she is controlling.They don't give your opinions, they don't... they have to control every situation.Huge red flag.
Second flag is they talk about their ex.Don't talk about your exes on your relationship.This is about you and them has nothing to do with somebody else.Leave them out of the picture.If they talk too much about ex means they're probably not over them yet.And you know ,or they could be...it could be nasty about them,that's not a good thing either.
The next red flag is if they are negative.everything they say is complain this person is ???,and complain about everything.Negative people are too good.if they want to move their relationship too fast,that's a red flag.they should be a slow pace to relationship.they want to pull you into everything that ??? the most.you know they're probably co-dependent.it's not a good sign if they moving too fast.and secondly,is if they don't listen to you when you talk,and if they are not remembering things you say,if they are constantly interupting you, that's a huge red flag.
I'm Donna Barnus,life and dating coach in New York city.

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lingyun1985

HOMEWORK

Hi,I'm Donna Barnes.I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York city.

In this clip,we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.No.1 is if he's controlling or she's controlling.They don't give you an opinion.They don't,they've got have control every situation,huge red flag.

Second red flag is they talk about ex.Don't talk about your exes on relationship.This is about you,and then has nothing to do with anybody else,leave them out of the picture.If you talking too much about the ex means they probaly not over them yet.and,you know,would be,it'll be nasty enough have good thing either.

The next red flag is if they stay negtive.Eveything they say is complain.This person is aways complain about everything,negtive people are not too good.If you want to move the relationship too fast that's the red flag,you should be small pace to the relationship.If you want to point everything ? doing the most,you know,the protically dependent.It's not good sign to moving too fast.The secondly,is if they don't listen to you when you talk,if they don't remembering things you said,is constantly interrupting you,that's the huge red flag.

I'm Donna Barnes,life and dating coach in New York city.

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Colin.F

HM
Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York City.
In this clip, we talk about the five biggest red flags with dating. No.1 is if he is controlling or she is controlling, they don't give you a opinion, they don't, ther are gonna have control in every situation, huge red flag.
Second red flag is they talk about their exe, don't talk about your exes on relationship, this is about you and them, has nothing to do with anybody else, leave them out of the picture. If they are talking too much about their exes, means they're probably not over **, and you know, or they could be, if they're being nasty about them, that's not a good thing either.
The next red flag is if they'are negative. Everythins they say is complaint, this person is lousy, they complained about everything, negative perple are not too good.
If they want to move the relationship too fast, that's the red flag. You should slow pace to relationship, they want to pull you into everything that they're doing at the most, thay're probably codependent, it's no a good sign if they're moving too fast.
And secondly, it's if they don't listen to you when you talk, if they're not remembering things you say, they're constantly interrupting you ,that's a huge red flag.
I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.

日.光.倾.城

HOMEWORK
Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I am a life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York city.
In this clip we will talk about five biggest red flags with dating.
No.1 is if he's controlling or she's controlling. They don't give you an opinion, they don't, they've got to have control every situation, huge red flag.
Second red flage is they talk about theri ex. Don't talk about your exs on this relationship. This is about you and them, and it's nothing to do with anybody else. Leave them out of the picture.
If they're talking too much about their exs means they probably not over them yet, and you know, or they could be, they're being nasty about them, it's not a good thing either.
Next red flage is if they're negative, everything they say is complain, this person is lousy, they complain about everything, negative people are not too good. If they want to move the relationship too fast, that's a red flag. They should be slow pace to relationship. They want to pull you into the everything that they're doing most. You know, they are  probably codependent, it's not a good sign, they are moving too fast.
And secondly is if they don't listen to you when you talk, if they're not remembering things you say  to constantly and interrupting you is a huge red flag.

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loo00

Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and relationship coach, and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York city.

In this clip we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.

No.1 is if he’s controlling or she’s controlling, they don't give you an opinion, they don't, they gonna, have controlled every situation, huge red flag.  

Second red flag is they talk about their ex. Don't talk about your ex on relationship, this is about you and them, has nothing to do with anybody else, leave them out of the picture. If they’re talking too much about their ex, it means they're probably not over them yet. And you know, or they could be, they’ve been nasty about them, and that's not a good thing, either.

The next red flag is if they're negative, everything they say is complaint, this person is lousy, and they complained about everything, negative people are not too good.

If they want to move their relationship too fast, that's a red flag. There should be a slow pace to relationship, if they want to pull you into everything that they are doing at the most. You know, they're probably co-dependents, it's not a good sign if they're moving too fast.

And secondly is if they don't listen to you when you talk, if they don't remember things you say, they’re constantly interrupting you, that's a huge red flag.

I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York city

wusishi1991

Hi,I'm Donna barms.I'm a life and relationship coach,and owner of NY dating coach,in NewYork city.
In this cliple we talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.Number one is if he is controling or she is controling.They don't give you opinion,they don't,they got,have to control every situation,huge trage  flag,some red flags they talk about their x,dont' talk about your x on relationship,this is about you and them has nothing to do with anybody else reached out of the picture.If they talked too much about x,it means probably not over them yet or ,you know,it could ber nasty about the * either.
The next red flag is said negtive.Every they say is complain,*complained aboud everything.negtive people was not to go.If they want to move their relationship to * that red flag,it should be slow * to relationship.
Or you want everything to get the most,you know the probaly cold pandan is not a good sign,they are moving too fast.And secondly is if they don't listen to you when you talk,or they don't remembering everything or * constently rupting you,it's a rad flag.
Donna Bamns ,life and dating coutch ,NY city.

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