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发表于 2010-8-22 11:02
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Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and relationship coach, and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York city.
In this clip we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.
No.1 is if he’s controlling or she’s controlling, they don't give you an opinion, they don't, they gonna, have controlled every situation, huge red flag.
Second red flag is they talk about their ex. Don't talk about your ex on relationship, this is about you and them, there’s nothing to do with anybody else, leave them out of the picture. If they’re talking too much about their ex
means they're probably not over them yet. And you know, or they could be, they’ve been nasty about them, and that's not a good thing, either.
The next red flag is if they're negative, everything they say is complaint, this person is lousy, and they complained about everything, negative people are not too good.
If they want to move their relationship too fast, that's a red flag. There should be a slow pace to relationship, if they want to pull you into everything that they are doing at the most. You know, they're probably co-dependents, it's not a good sign if they're moving too fast.
And secondly is if they don't listen to you when you talk, if they aren’t remembering things you say, they’re constantly interrupting you, that's a huge red flag.
I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York city |
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