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Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and relationship coach, and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York city.

In this clip we'll talk about the five biggest red flags with dating.

No.1 is if he is controlling or she is controlling, they don't give you an opinion, they don't, they gotta have control of every situation, huge red flag.  

Second red flag is they talk about their ex. Don't talk about your exs on relationship, this is you and them, has nothing to do with anybody else, leave them out of the picture. If they're talking too much about their exs, it means they're probably not over them yet. And you know, or they could be, they're being nasty about them, and that's not a good thing either.

The next red flag is if they're negtive, everything they say is compaints, this person is lousy, they complained about everything, negtive people are not too good.

If they want to move that relationship to fast, that's a red flag. There should be a slow pace to relationship, if they wanna pull you into everything that they're doing at the most. You know, they're probably co-dependents, it's not a good sign if they're moving too fast.

And secondly is if they don't listen to you when you talk, if they're not remembering things  you say, they're constantly interrupting you, that's a huge red flag.

I'm Donna Barnes, Life and Dating coach in New York city.