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发表于 2011-3-23 14:18
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Hi, I am Donna Barnes, life and relationship coach here in New York City and the author of It's All About You.
To keep romance alive,you have to work at it a little bit,but it shouldn't feel like work.I think,the simplest way to keep romance going is to really keep affection between you.If you touch each other as you walk by, maybe like ,you know,pat each other on the tush or rub the other one's back and compliment each other constantly,it just keep that attraction going together and it's really a good way to feel loved,and keep that romance going.And make an effort to really do the same thing you did when you first met.If there's a special place you like to go together,make sure sitll keep going there.Or create new memories.,find new things to do,I mean, patterns and habits are sometimes what kills a relationship. So maybe make a plan that, at least once a month, you find something new to do, and maybe each one of you gets to pick what it is. And you don't get to complain to the other one. It's, like, you're just going to explore something new that the other person would like to do. And have a fun time doing it. Have a no complaining policy no matter what you do. If you get out together, no complaining, no griping about the week or the kids. It's just about and spending some quality time together, and you'll keep the romance going. |
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