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Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach, and owner of
NY Dating Coach in New York City.
In this clip we’ll talk about how to deal
with rejection. And the first thing you do is not look at it like rejection. If
he's not interested in you or she's not interested in you, then they’re not
good enough for you. You want somebody who truly gets you, and appreciates you,
and values you.
So if
they didn't, you don't want them anyway. So it's all about perception, nobody
can reject you if you didn't want them in the first place. So, yeah, maybe you were
attracted to them, maybe you / thought that they were interesting, but trust
me, somebody else will be interesting to you too. And they're only going to
be good for you if they're really interested in you as well. So, don't take it
personally, move on to the next person who knows what that person has going on
with them. You're terrific and that's all you need to know. It's all about
perception and how you choose to look at it. I know it can be a hard pill to swallow if
you really like
somebody, but trust me, if they don't like you, they’re not good enough for
you. You should move on to somebody who does.
This is Donna Barnes, life and dating coach
in New York City.
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