[豆知识] 【整理】2012-02-05&02-11 如何判断他人是否在说谎

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How to Tell if Someone Is Lying

When someone lies, they act strange. They avoid eye contact and they get defensive easily. Trust your instincts when trying to tell if someone is lying with tips from Donna Barnes, a life and relationship coach, in this episode of BOK on dating advice.

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由jessiyear在 整理的参考文本：
Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach, and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City.



In this clip we’ll talk about how to tell if someone's lying. Well, if it’s someone that you know very well, and they’re acting funny or strange, trust your instincts. Your instincts are usually right. But a big telltale is eye contact. In a normal conversation, someone makes eye contact at least 50 percent of the time. So if they’re really avoiding eye contact with you, that means they’re probably being dishonest. If you start asking them questions about it and they get defensive, that's a big sign that they might be lying. If they’re saying contradicting things, they say one thing and then something else and it doesn’t really make sense, that's probably a sign. And if they try to change the subject, if they just throw something out there and then they’re onto the next thing and you’re trying to come back to it and they don't want to, that’s probably a sign that they’re lying. So if you know somebody really well, you can genuinely get a sense when they’re not being quite how they usually are and that's a good big sign that they’re lying. Trust your instincts. Your instincts are usually pretty accurate.



I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.

由jessiyear在 整理的生词：
telltale: n. signs that clearly show something has happened or exist, often something that is a secret 迹象



contradicting: adj. 矛盾的



genuinely: adv. truly 由衷地、真正地

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Homework
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shinyjojo

I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach and honorable NY dating coach in New York City.

In this quibble talk about how to tell if someone's lying. When someone you know very well and acting funny a strange, trusting your instincts, your instincts is usually right. But a big tell tell is eye contact, the normal conversation someone makes eye contact at least people some defend. They already avoiding eye contact you that means the probably in the signs. He start asked me questions about it and make it fansive. That's a big sign in my guilt eye. If the same contridition things is one thing and something else just make sense, that's a probably sign. And they try to change subject they still something are @@ around the next thing and try it come back through they don't want to, that probably a sign underline. So he know somebody really well you can genrally get signs when they are lie being how they usually are and that's a big sign that they are lying.truest your instincts,your instincts usually pretty and correct.

I'm Donna Barnes,life and dating coach in New York city.

ayiyd

HW:
Hi, I'm Donna Barnes, I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York city. The next quibble talk about how to tell us someone is lying. When there's someone you know very well and they are acting funny or strange, trust your instincts. Your instincts are usually right. But a big telltale is eye contact. In a normal conversation, someone makes eye contact at least 50 percent at the time, so they are really avoiding eye contact with you, that means that they are probably being decise. You started to ask them questions about it and they get defensive, that's a good sign they might be lying. If they are saying contradictive things they say one thing and something else that doesn't really make sense. That's probably a sign. And if they try to change the subjects, there's still something around the next thing and you try to come back to it later want to, that's probabl a sign that they are lying.So you know somebody really well, you can generally get sense when they are not being buoyant how they usually are. That's a good big sign that they are lying. Trust your instincts, your instincts are usually pretty and correct. I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York city.

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Homework
I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach and honorable NY dating coach in New York City.

In this quibble talk about how to tell if someone's lying. When someone you know very well and acting funny a strange, trusting your instincts, your instincts is usually right. But a big tell tell is eye contact, the normal conversation someone makes eye contact at least people some defend. They already avoiding eye contact you that means the probably in the signs. He start asked me questions about it and make it fansive. That's a big sign in my guilt eye. If the same contridition things is one thing and something else just make sense, that's a probably sign. And they try to change subject they still something are @@ around the next thing and try it come back through they don't want to, that probably a sign underline. So he know somebody really well you can genrally get signs when they are lie being how they usually are and that's a big sign that they are lying.truest your instincts,your instincts usually pretty and correct.

I'm Donna Barnes,life and dating coach in NY city.

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I'm doctor ** . I make life and relationship coach, and owner of NY dating coach in Newyork city.And this cripal talk about how tell us somebody is lying.Whenver somebody you known very well, and acting funning and strange, trust your instincts. Your instincts are really right. But a big i tell out is eye contact.In normal composition some make esy contacte release  15% percent of the time. They really involved eye contacted to you that means they probably be honest.Be try asking them question about it and get it defensive.That is a big sense they might lie.If they say controdit thing that they want something else just make sense that's probably a sign.If i change the subject,they just say something around next thing and try to come back make i want to that's probably make sense that they lie.So if you know somebody really well, you can generally get sense when you not being quite usually right now and gets the big sense that they lie.Trust you r intincts,your instincts is usual pretty and correct.I'm doctor *** and life and dating coach in Newyork city.




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On shinyjojo
I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York City.

In this clip we talk about how to tell  someone's lying. When someone you know very well and acting funny or strange, trusting your instincts, your instincts is usually right. But a big tell tell is eye contact,  in the normal conversation someone makes eye contact at least 50 percent of the time . So they really avoiding eye contact  to you that means the probably being dishonest. Be start asking questions about it and it gets defensive ----that's a big sign they might be lying. If the saying  contradicting things --- they say one thing and something else just make sense, that's a probably sign. And they try to change subject they still something are @@ around the next thing and try it come back through they don't want to, that probably a sign of the lying. So you know somebody really well ,you can generally get signs when they are lie being how they usually are and that's a big sign that they are lying.truest your instincts,your instincts usually pretty and correct.

I'm Donna Barnes,life and dating coach in New York city.

悠悠游弋

HW
I'm Donna Barns. I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York City.

In this clip we talk about how to tell someone is lying. When someone that you know very well and they're acting funny or strange, trust your instincts, your instinct is usually right. But a big tale-teller is eye contact. In a normal conversation, someone makes eye contact at least 50% of the time. So if they're really avoiding eye contact with you that means there probably being dishonest. You start asking questions about it and they get defensive, that's a big sign they might be lying. If they're saying contradicting things, they say one thing and then something else that just doesn't really make sense, that's probably a sign. And they try to change subject, they just start something and then go on to the next thing and you try to come back to it, they don't want to, that's probably a sign that they're lying. So you know somebody really well ,you can genuinely get the sense when they're not being way how they usually are and that's a good big sign that they are lying. Trust your instinct; your instinct is usually pretty accurate.
I'm Donna Barn, life and dating coach in New York City.

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lizard_ly

Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach, and owner of NY dating coach in New York city.

In this clip, we'll talk about how to tell someone is lying. Whenever someone you know very well and they're acting funny or strange, trust your instincts, your instincts is usually right. But a big tell tale is eye contact, in the normal conversation someone makes eye contact at least 50% of the time. So they are really avoiding eye contact to you that means they're probably being dishonest. Be start asking the questions about it and it gets defensive, that's a big sign they might be lying. If they're saying contradicting things they say one thing and something else that just really make sense, that's probably a sign. And they try to change the subject, they just screw something other and around the next thing and try come back to it they don't want to, that's probably a sign that they're lying. So, you know somebody really well, you can generally get signs when they're not being ways how do they usually are. And that's a good big sign that they're lying. Trust instincts, your instincts is usually pretty accurate.

I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York city.
                                                   
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jerrylvzy

Hi,I'm Donna Barnes,I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York city.In this clip we'll tell about how to tell someone's lie.When someone you know very well and their acting funny or strange,trust your instincts.Your instincts are usually right.But a big tell tale is eye-contact.In the normal conversation someone makes eye-contacts at least 15 percent of the time.So if they really avoiding eye contact with you that probably mean they are being dishonest.You should ask them the questions about it and they get defensive,that's a big sign they might be lying.If they are say contr? thing they say one thing and something else that doesn't really make sense that's probably a sign.And if they try to change the subject they just tell something around the next thing and you try to come back to and they don't want to.That's probably a sign of sign.So,you know somebody really well you can generally get a sense when they are not being what they are usually are,and that's a good big sign about their lie.Trust your instincts,your instincts usually pretty and correct.I'm Donna Barnes,life and dating coach in New York city.
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lant_zhang

Hi，I'm Donna Barnes. I'm in life and relationship coach and honor of NY dating coach in New York City.
In this clip we talk about how to tell someone's lie.When someone that you know well very and they are acting funny or strange trust your instincts. Your instinct usually right. But a big tale-teller is eye contact, In the normal conversation, someone makes eye contacts at least 50% of the time, so if they are really avoid eye contact with you that means they are probably been dishonest.


Be start asking question about it and it get a defensive, that's a big sign might be a liar. If they are thinking contradicting things this they want think something else they just really make sense that's probably a sign. And if they try to change the subject, they just something other and around the next thing and try to come back to it they don't want to. That probably be a sign of their lying. So, you know somebody really well, you can generally get a sign when they are not being way how do they usually are. And that's a good big sign of their lie. Trust instincts, your instincts is usually pretty accurate.

I'm Donna Barnes. Life and Dating coach in New York City.



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HOME WORK

Hi， i'm Donna Barnes, i'm an life and relationship coach, and owner of NY dating coach in New York city. in this clip we will talk about how to tell if someone is lying. Well, if someone you know very well and they are acting funny or strange, trust your instinct, your instinct is usually right, but a big tell-tale is eye contact, in a normal conversation, someone makes eye contact at least 50% of the time, if they are really avoiding eye contact with you, that means they are probably being dishonest, you start asking them questions about it, and they get defensive, that is a big sign they might be lying. If they are saying contradicting things, they say one thing and then something else that doesn't really make sense, that is probably a sign, and if they try to change the subject, they just throw something, and then round to the next thing and they try to come back to it they don't want to, that is probably a sign that they are lying. So you know somebody really well, you can genuinely get a sense when they are not being way how they usually are, that is a good big sign they are lying, trust your instinct,your instinct is usually pretty accurate. I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York city.

backflow

Hi I am Donna Brown,I am your life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York city.In this clip we talk about how to tell someone is lying.XX someone you know very well and the acting funny and strange .But a big tale tell is eye contract.In the normal conversation someone makes eye contract list fifty percent at a time.So the really avoiding eye contract to you that means the probably being dishonest.this the asking the question about that and make defensive that is the big sign that may be lied .if the same contract xxxxxx that just make sense that is probably your sight.And the change the subject that xxxxxxxxxx.that is probably the sight of lie .So you know some very well.you can generate regret sense when the no being well how the usual they are.and that is a good big sign of your life.
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I am Donna Browns. Life and Dating coach in New York city.

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jkkiki

Hi,I'm Donna Barnes.I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY dating coach in New York city.In this clip we'll talk about how to tell if someone is lying.When they are someone you know very well and they are acting funny and strange,trust your instincts.Your instincts are usually right.But a big tale tell is eye contact.In a normal conversation someone makes eye contact at least 50% of the time,so if they are really avoiding eye contact with you that means they are probably being dishonest.You should ask them question about it and they make defensive that's a big sign they might be lying.If they are saying contracdicting things that they say one thing and some things else that doestn't really make sense.That's probably a sign.And if they try to change the subject,there is still something around next thing and you are trying to come back to it later you want to.That's probably a sign that they are lying.So you know somebody really well you can generally get sense when they are not bing way they are usually are.And that's a good big sign that they are lying.Trust your instincts.Your instincts are usually pretty and correct.I'm Donna Barnes,life and dating coach in New York city.
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Iynne

[Homework]

Hi, I'm Donna Barns. I'm a life and relationship coach and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York city.

In this cilp we'll talk about how to tell about someone's lie. Well if someone that you know very well and they are acting funny or strange, trust your instincts. Your instincts are ususally right. But a big telltale is eye contact. In a normal conversation, someone makes eye contact at least 50 percent of the time. So if they are really avoiding eye contact with you, that means they are probably being dishonest. If you start asking them questions about it and they get defensive, that's a big sign they might be lying. If they are saying contradictive things and they say one thing and something else that doesn't really make sense, that's probably a sign. And if they try to change the subject, they just start something else and onto the next thing, and you try to come back to it, and they don't want to, that's probably a sign that they are lying. So if you know somebody really well, you can generally get a sense when they are not being way how they usually are. And that's a good big sign that they are lying. Trust your instincts, your instincts are usually pretty accurate.

I'm Donna Barns, life and dating coach in New York city.

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Hi, I'm Donna Barnes. I'm a life and relationship coach, and owner of NY Dating Coach in New York City.



In this clip we’ll talk about how to tell if someone's lying. Well, if it’s someone that you know very well, and they’re acting funny or strange, trust your instincts. Your instincts are usually right. But a big telltale is eye contact. In a normal conversation, someone makes eye contact at least 50 percent of the time. So if they’re really avoiding eye contact with you, that means they’re probably being dishonest. If you start asking them questions about it and they get defensive, that's a big sign that they might be lying. If they’re saying contradicting things, they say one thing and then something else and it doesn’t really make sense, that's probably a sign. And if they try to change the subject, if they just throw something out there and then they’re onto the next thing and you’re trying to come back to it and they don't want to, that’s probably a sign that they’re lying. So if you know somebody really well, you can genuinely get a sense when they’re not being quite how they usually are and that's a good big sign that they’re lying. Trust your instincts. Your instincts are usually pretty accurate.



I'm Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.