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[豆知识] 【整理】2010-10-17&10-23 在恋爱关系中保持自我

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In this clip we are gonna talk about how to maintain you power in a relationship.

Cause the big problem is you are really attractive who you are, that's why you get together, and then you become a different person once you get into a relationship.

You gotta keep maintainning what's important to you, independence and things you would do outside a relationship. Dont let your whole life become about the relationship.

Keep your friends. Friends are really important to keep going. And dont make eveything about the other person. They'll lose interest in you. Maintain being the person that you were when you first met them cause that's what they were attracted to. It doesnt mean your intimicy doesnt deep and you dont get close to each other. You do. But dont give up yourself. You have to be a whole person and love yourself to be attracted to somebody else. No one  else can love you unless you first love yourself.

But the most important thing is that you dont look just someone else for your happiness. You have to be happy on your own. They may make you happier. But your happiness must come from just you.
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